The Queen expressed the importance of family in her statement tonight and told how she is ‘particularly proud’ of her grandaughter-in-law Meghan Markle.
Her Majesty used a deeply personal tone and referred to her ‘family’ four times throughout the statement with the use of three ‘I’s’ and three ‘my’s’ throughout its five paragraphs.
She commended Meghan for how swiftly she has become part of the Royal Family and thanked the couple for the dedicated work they have done.
The Queen speaks as head of the Royal Family in the final line of the statement and reveals how it is her wish for Meghan, Harry and Archie to begin a ‘happy and peaceful new life’.
In contrast, the statement issued by Buckingham Palace has a more impersonal tone and lacks the warm touch of the Queen’s statement.
The couple are referred to as the Duke and Duchess of Sussex which tells us that that Harry and Meghan intend to keep their official style.
The statement from Her Majesty The Queen released tonight detailing how Harry, Meghan and Archie will remain ‘much loved’ members of her family
‘Following many months of conversations’:
The opening line begins with a bombshell, revealing that Harry and Meghan have been discussing their exit from royal life with the Queen and other senior royals for longer than the public expected.
The couple announced their intention to step back as senior royals on January 8. In a statement the Duke and Duchess said: ‘After many months of reflection and internal discussions.’
The phrase ‘many months’ is very revealing as it confirms the couple’s decision to break away was made a long time ago.
The public only became aware of their troubles earlier this month. But the couple, who have been married for just 20 months, have obviously been struggling for a long time.
‘My grandson and his family’:
The Queen highlights her personal bond with Harry and refers to him as her ‘grandson’ emphasising her role as not just the monarch but also his grandmother.
The word ‘family’ appears four times in the statement which relates to the Royal Family and the family unit of Harry, Meghan and Archie.
Family’ was also used six times in the heartfelt message she issued on Monday when she said she had reluctantly conceded to Harry and Meghan’s wishes.
This reflects her sorrow because she and her closest relatives ‘would have preferred’ the couple to remain full-time Royals.
In her statement Her Majesty The Queen praised how Meghan had swiftly become part of the family and thanked the couple for the work they had done
‘Much-loved members of my family’:
The Queen hits a personal note by emphasising how Meghan, Harry and Archie will always remain ‘much-loved’ members of her family.
In their new life, Harry and Meghan may be living 4,700 miles from London in Vancouver, but the Queen wants to assure them they will always be ‘much loved’.
The statement has a deeply personal tone with the use of three ‘I’s’ and three ‘my’s’ throughout its five paragraphs.
Her Majesty’s whole tone is an attempt to make the break as harmonious as possible, considering that this has widely been seen as the biggest Royal crisis in a generation. Although hurt and saddened, she wants to emphasise her support for the couple.
‘I recognise the challenges they have experienced’
These ‘challenges’ have proved too much for the couple. They have been numerous: juggling parenthood with Royal duties, Harry’s feeling that he has struggled to cut out a defined role and Meghan missing her friends across the Atlantic. ‘Intense scrutiny’ undoubtedly refers to media coverage.
The Queen expresses her gratitude for the work Meghan and Harry have contributed to ‘the Commonwealth and beyond’. Meghan and Harry wish to pursue an independent life in Canada, another Commonwealth country.
The Queen pays tribute to Meghan and praises how quickly she has become part of the family. This is in light of how many feel the Queen has every right to be unhappy with the way the Duchess has behaved.
Keen not for Meghan to be considered a ‘bolter’ – the word famously used to describe Princess Diana’s mother when she left her family – the Queen goes out of her way to speak of her pride in the 38-year-old Duchess and a desire to keep her in the embrace of the Windsor family.
‘My whole family’s hope’:
Here the monarch speaks as a head of the Royal Family as a whole, putting aside her personal feelings for the greater good.
‘A happy and peaceful new life’:
After days of Megxit headlines and public concerns about the future of the monarchy, the Queen is adamant that she wants this statement to bring this sad episode in Royal history to a swift close.
The statement released by Buckingham Palace tonight revealing that the Duke and Duchess of Sussex ‘are grateful to Her Majesty and the Royal Family’
‘The Duke and Duchess of Sussex’:
The opening line reads like an impersonal corporate press releases which lacks the warm touch of the Queen’s statement.
Mentioning their Sussex titles at the start tells us that the couple intend to keep their official style. They are ‘grateful’ because Megxit talks have not dragged out too long so they’ve not been forced to compromise their demands.
‘Next chapter of their lives’:
Unlike the Queen, whose life has been one long chapter of public service, the Sussexes believe that their own lives can be separated into many different chapters.
‘As agreed in this new arrangement’:
By stressing this deal was agreed by all involved, Harry and Meghan wish the public to believe this was a joint decision by all the Royal Family and to downplay the fact that they were largely responsible for the schism.
‘With the Queen’s blessing’:
Harry and Meghan are keen to stress they are still loyal to Her Majesty despite their radical decision to quit royal life.
‘The Sussexes will not use their HRH titles’:
Not using their HRH titles prevents history repeating itself as Harry’s mother, despite her insistence otherwise, was stripped of the title of Her Royal Highness.
‘The Duke and Duchess of Sussex have shared their wish to repay the sovereign grant’:
Again, Meghan and Harry refer to themselves in the third person and at no point is ‘us’ or ‘we’ used.
It is in contrast to the Queen’s statement which used three ‘I’s’ and three ‘my’s’ throughout its five paragraphs.
This may be because the statement was issued by Buckingham Palace, but raises questions over why it was not released by the couple themselves.
The Sovereign Grant – paid by the Government from taxes to the Royal Family and worth £82 million a year – has provided five per cent of the couple’s income.
This may no longer be paid but there is no mention of the estimated £2.3 million a year handed to them by Prince Charles from his investments.
‘Their UK family home’:
The Duke and Duchess of Sussex have expressed their wish to pursue an independent life in North America where they can set their own agenda and make money how they choose.
By stressing that Frogmore Cottage remains their ‘UK family home’, they’re leaving the door open to the possibility that they could one day base themselves in Britain. Given recent events, that’s very unlikely.